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Need Help! Displaced by Hurricane Florence

Life keeps throwing curve balls! The last six months have been the most difficult in my life due to losing my son to suicide and all the pain that comes with that. But NOW, I have been displaced by Hurricane Florence. As we live only two blocks from the beach, in Myrtle Beach, we are in a mandatory evacuation zone.  We weren’t prepared financially to leave (I just got off disability, due to my son’s death). Now we aren’t able to get home because we have to drive through NC to do so. We have no idea what we are going to do! Not being able to work and no savings- we are living off the generosity of anyone willing to help.

If you would like to help me I have a Go Fund Me page.



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Homeless: Banned From Life

As I drive my car past the third person I’ve seen panhandling on the street today my mind wonders. Over the past few years it seems to me that there has been an increase in the homeless population, or perhaps I’m just more aware. According to the National Law Center on Homelessness and Poverty, an estimated 2.5 to 3.5 million people are homeless. I hope you will take a moment to read this in its entirety…


This is a difficult subject for some and one many would like to ignore it altogether. But, in a nation of wealth such as the United States, it is deplorable to me. As we aide other countries, takes in refugees and rally around so many causes- why are so many in our own “back yard” forgotten? Homelessness effects all ethnicities, does not play favorites, nor does it know race. While protesting against police officers or politicians is common place, why aren’t we coming together for a cause that effects millions across all nationalities? This should be our embarrassment, it is certainly our tragedy!

“According to the National Coalition for the Homeless, in 2012 hate crimes in Florida against people living in the streets more than doubled crimes committed against the homeless in other states. Since 2008, this organization has named Florida three times as the most threatening state for the homeless.

Jerry Jones, National Coalition for the Homeless’ executive director, said that this is because of a “lack of empathy for fellow human beings: the same moral failure that allows our society to tolerate the larger tragedy of homelessness.”

According to HomeAid, more than half of homeless are families with children”  Source


Some states or cities over the years have made it even more difficult for the homeless. Sleeping in public areas, giving food in the streets and other basic needs were banned– prohibiting communities from helping their homeless.

“According to a NLCHP report that surveyed 187 cities between 2011 and 2014, 34 percent had citywide laws banning camping in public. Another 43 percent prohibited sleeping in vehicles, and 53 percent banned sitting or lying down in certain public places. All of these laws criminalize the kind of activities — sitting, resting, sleeping — that are arguably fundamental to human existence.

And they’ve criminalized that behavior in an environment where most cities have far more homeless than shelter beds. In 2014, the federal government estimates, there were about 153,000 unsheltered homeless on the street in the U.S. on any given night.” Source


The National Coalition for Homeless Veterans states that 11 percent of homeless people in the United States are war veterans. This is tragedy at its highest level! Men and women who have gone to war for our freedoms, only to come back and not receive the help that they need. The average ages of these being 18-30.

I could go on with statistics and sorrowful words, but I will leave you with this thought. As we near the holidays, I hope you will consider those in your community that are in need. There are always ways to get involved and help. Do your research (as I always recommend) before donating money- making sure that it is appropriated where you see fit. But, perhaps even consider donating your time to a worthy cause. And, although I don’t advocate giving money to those standing on the street corners, I do recommend giving them a bagged lunch or a bottled water. Keeping non-parishables in your car just for this purpose is my suggestion. Remember, reaching out can make someone’s day, including your own. 



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